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This is the second of a 3-part article in which I describe
various practices that can create the relaxation response within
your body - which serves as an antidote to the harmful effects of
chronic stress on the body. Through these tested techniques which
encourage the state of relaxation, we can begin to engage the
body's marvelous potential for self-healing.
In Part I, we reviewed the techniques of Diaphragmatic Breathing and the Body Scan. (If you missed this newsletter, click on RX for Stress: The Relaxation Response - Part I.
In Part II, we will learn about relaxation through Centering
Meditation, Mindfulness, and Visualization.
1. Centering Meditation
In centering meditation, we focus our attention on a word or
phrase to enhance the sense of relaxation while breathing
deeply, slowly and evenly. The words you choose can have deep
personal meaning, be neutral or simply be pleasing sounds.
One approach with this kind of structured meditation is to say
one word or phrase to yourself as you breathe in and another as
you breathe out. Here are some examples for you to try right
now:
As you breathe in, mentally say to yourself: At
As you breathe out, mentally say to yourself: Peace
With the inhale, saying: Let
With the exhale, saying: Go
Breathing in: Deep
Breathing out: Slow
Another way to use centering meditation is to repeat the word or
phrase each time you breathe out. Here are some examples of
words or phrases you might repeat to yourself in this way:
Rest
Relax
Calm
One
Wind
Now
You can also practice centering meditation by counting breaths.
To do this, simply count each time you breathe out, You can count
up to ten and start over again. When you lose track of the
count, start over again at 1.
If thoughts, feelings or distractions arise, just let them pass
on by and gently bring your attention back to the repetitive
word, phrase, or counting.
2. The Practice of Mindfulness
Mindfulness is the discovery of what the essayist, Henry David
Thoreau, referred to as the "bloom of the present moment." This
practice can provide an experience of the relaxation response as
you learn to be in the present with non-judgmental, moment to
moment awareness. It allows you to become centered and fully
engaged in your life as it unfolds.
Mindfulness can be practiced formally or informally. In the
formal practice of mindfulness, you start with attention on the
physical ensations that come with breathing. That is followed by
a widening of focus as you begin to be aware of sounds,
sensations, thoughts, experiences or feelings. As you become
aware of what is within you and around you, you can learn to
consider and embrace what is present without judgment, without
trying to change it or move away from it.
Mindfulness is best practiced with awareness of the breath. As
you breathe, you observe the thoughts or feelings that arise
without reacting to them. Then, using the rhythm of your breath,
simply name and acknowledge what you observe, and continue
focusing on the breath. In this way, the breath becomes an
ongoing anchor to the present moment, and the interruptive
thought or feeling fades from awareness.
This process has been likened to sitting on the bank of a stream,
focusing on the breath. As a leaf or a stick floats by, it
enters conscious awareness. The leaf is observed, noted, and then
it floats down the stream out of view. The observer returns to
the focus on the breath.
Some examples are:
Breathing in, I know that I am breathing in.
Breathing out, I know that I am breathing out.
Breathing in, I am sad (or happy, worried, afraid, etc.)
Breathing out, I am still sad, etc.
With this approach, we stop thinking about what has triggered
the emotion and simply name and breathe it.
A less formal approach to mindfulness involves bringing your full
awareness to any task in which you are engaged, or to any moment
that is occurring in your day. Whether you are eating, walking,
driving, or getting dressed, you can proceed with the task or
pleasure at hand, being fully absorbed in it while maintaining
the awareness of your breathing. You can engage your senses
fully and savor sensations that you notice.
Breathing in, I know that I am taking a shower.
Breathing out, I hear the rushing sounds of the water.
Breathing in, I notice the sensation of the warm water on my
body.
Breathing out, I see the swirling patterns of steam.
With this informal approach - bringing mindful awareness to
what is happening in the moment - we cease the stress-inducing
habit of multi-tasking and allow ourselves to be fully engaged in
what is at hand. Only then can we be fully alive -- present to
our lives!
2. Visualization or Guided Imagery/Meditation
Visualization and Guided Meditation is a powerful, creative and
engaging way to soothe yourself and move into the state of deep
rest and relaxation. It is a powerful tool for changing your
life. Through visualization you can intentionally use your
imagination to change your behavior, help your mind and body to
heal, and alter the way you feel.
In her book, Staying Well With Guided Imagery, Belleruth
Naparstek says that Guided Imagery is "a kind of directed,
deliberate daydreaming, . . . a safe and effective method of
utilizing your sensory imagination." This helps you relax so
that your mind and body may rest and recover from the ravages of
chronic stress.
Imagery works because your body doesn't fully distinguish between
evocative, sensory images and real events. Therefore, when one
is in a state of deep relaxation, the images we choose to focus
on can be potent and real to the body.
One way to start the practice of visualization is to use an
audio CD, either one that is professionally produced or your own
recording of a chosen meditation script. You can also practice on
your own by bringing to mind an image that you find relaxing -- a
soothing image of a favorite place or a happy experience. Breathe
slowly and deeply as you use all of your imaginal senses
to create and savor your chosen image.
Speaking of Guided Imagery and Meditation - My new 2-CD set, The
Alchemy of Peace and Love: Magical Meditations to Calm Your Mind
and Lift Your Spirit, is now available! Here is what one listener
said about this CD:
The Alchemy of Peace & Love guides me to a place where joy
and love and peace and sweet remembrance have their
beginnings. They find my soul, like a long talk with a dear
friend . . . . This CD will find its way into the deepest
place in your heart. You will be cradled, rocked by your own
breath, and delivered back to the world ready to present your
best self . . .
-- Sherry Lawler, LCSW, Psychotherapist
Discover more about this delightful new CD!
Sandi Anders, M.Div., R.Y.T., is a contributor to The Guide to
Self-Help Books, http://www.Books4SelfHelp.com and co-author of Self-Help Central, an ezine to help you build a better life with
self-help resources. She teaches stress mastery skills through
psycho-spiritual life coaching, and yoga and meditation
instruction. She writes self-help articles on stress management and has produced a best-selling relaxation CD.
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